Category Archives: God

Your concept of God is the most crucial thought you will ever possess. PERIOD. It is the filter by which you view everything.

Your life is on the line – PLEASE do your own research by reading what God says about himself in The Bible. Don’t make your decision based on how you see his followers. Just like the largest percentage of automobile accidents are human error – not the fault of the carmaker.

Marriage and Same Sex Attraction

Below are some of the resources that have softened my heart and clarified my convictions in these areas of life.

The reality is that we are ALL “oriented” towards idolatry.  Our attractions have been perverted away from God towards other things. Then only question is how those attractions will be handled. And, what we will worship.


Sam Allberry sharing his personal journey as a Christ-follower with same sex attraction


Lauire and Matt Krieg in a podcast with Juli Slattery on their marriage and Laurie’s same sex attraction. <Listen to the podcast>

Sexuality: Masterpiece or Minefield?

Actually, its BOTH. God created everyone of us with sexuality and that sexuality is imprinted on our soul. Our sexuality shows up in anatomy, hormones, attractions, needs and desires. Our sexuality is powerful; sometimes overwhelmingly so. In fact, it is so powerful that the only context strong enough to truly handle it is the covenant relationship God called marriage. But when we use our sexuality outside of that relationship, the consequences are unpredictable and become a minefield.

Sexuality

Artists like Michelangelo spent years working on sculptures that use anatomy as part of their story. The world famous Mona Lisa involves anatomy too – but it her case it’s her eyes and her mysterious smile. Eye contact can be VERY powerful and sexuality is not limited to private parts. It springs forth from our eyes, our facial expressions, neck, lips, neck, arm, tongue, hands, fingertips, shoulders, legs… you name it. Our sexuality is aroused in many ways: sight, smell, touch, taste, sounds and situations; even unconscious dreams. It really is staggering that God created all of this – knowing full well it would create endless opportunities for sin. The ache for acceptance is relentless…

There is no escaping it

This topic affects everyone on a very personal level and virtually no one is talking about it inside the church! People have deep stuff going on in this area and churches are not inherently equipped to handle it. It takes intentionality. It also takes courage to take the topic of sexuality on because people back away from it like the plague – its a conversation stopper. That is until until someone courageously (or desperately) opens up and opens the door. Then, the floodgates open. There is so much pain lurking just below the surface. We have got to figure out a way to deal with it.

Reclaiming Sexuality (or at least what fighting for what God intended Sexuality to be)

My wife and I attended a leadership training event recently where we heard raw and transparent testimony from the people below about their journey of brokenness and Reclaiming Sexuality. We were reminded that sexuality is something beautiful; created by God to give us a tangible way to understand the concept of His covenant love. I now have Hope for a better conversation inside the church regarding sex and sexuality. I have this hope because I met some people who were willing to get gut-level honest about the nitty gritty realities of life in this area. They have lived it and are STILL living it. There was no sugar-coating the challenges. Being a Christian does not make you immune. In fact, it probably puts a target on your back – but we can get into that later.

Here are the groups we heard from:

Anne Kerr – https://truenorthfp.org
Julie Slattery – https://www.authenticintimacy.com/
Jonathan Daugherty – http://www.jonathandaugherty.com/

Each has their own personal story of struggle and victory. Each has their own unique perspective. All have a unifying testimony of God’s faithfulness as they sought to look at their circumstances biblically and respond in a spiritually heroic fashion.

Here is an example: In this video Juli Slattery talks about the beauty of Sexuality and how it is a Powerful “Holy” Metaphor.

 

Equality is Only Found in Our Value to God

Equality is a prominent social discussion. But no one is ever truly equal to another.
  1. It takes all of us to reflect the various complexities of the character of God. Each equally valued in the eyes of God and each uniquely suited for a certain ministry path. None more “valuable” than the other – just different.
  2. Job is my best example in scripture of being highly regarded by God and yet used by God for HIS GLORY through seemingly “unfair” suffering and personal cost. God actually seemed matter of fact. The dialogue in Chapters 1-2 sounds more like a negotiation than a hesitant sacrifice for “the cause”.
  3. Job and his friends vent and speculate for 36 chapters. Then, in Chapter 38 instead of God saying something like “Job, I’m sorry, here is what was really going on. I needed to use you. I know it hurt. You did not deserve this. ” He blasts Job with perspective. Job got put in his place and repented.
  4. In the restoration, Job’s daughters also got an inheritance – just like the sons.

Our charge as Christians is not to defend scripture. That may be what many are expecting us to do with prickly passages on women and men. Our charge is to weigh specific passages in light of the whole of scripture and seek to hear from God as to how it applies to us. WITHOUT demanding fairness – whatever that means. God is just. He is sovereign. If it is in scripture, He is content with it.

We would be wise to tread lightly with our discontent over what we think we may be hearing when Biblical passages trouble us. God is not seeking our approval. He is expecting our worship. Our only other choice is disbelief.

Jesus and the Wild Wild West

There are two visions of life, two kinds of people.

The first see life as a possession to be carefully guarded. They are called settlers. The second see life as a wild, fantastic, explosive gift. They are called pioneers. These two types give rise to two kinds of theology: Settler Theology and Pioneer Theology. According to Wes Seeliger in his book, Western Theology, the first kind, Settler Theology, is an attempt to answer all the questions, define and housebreak some sort of Supreme Being, establish the status quo on golden tablets in cinemascope. Pioneer Theology is an attempt to talk about what it means to receive the strange gift of life. The Wild West is the setting for both theologies.

Settler Theology

In Settler Theology, the church is the courthouse. It is the center of town life. The old stone structure dominates the town square. Its windows are small and this makes things dark inside. Within the courthouse walls, records are kept, taxes collected, trials held for bad guys. The courthouse is the settler’s symbol of law, order, stability, and—most importantly—security. The mayor’s office is on the top floor. His eagle eye ferrets out the smallest details of town life.
In Pioneer Theology, the church is the covered wagon. It’s a house on wheels, always on the move. The covered wagon is where the pioneers eat, sleep, fight, love and die. It bears the marks of life and movement—it creaks, is scarred with arrows, bandaged with baling wire. The covered wagon is always where the action is. It moves toward the future and doesn’t bother to glorify its own ruts. The old wagon isn’t comfortable, but the pioneers don’t mind. They are more into adventure than comfort.

In Settler Theology, God is the mayor. He is a sight to behold. Dressed like a dude from back East, he lounges in an over-stuffed chair in his courthouse office. He keeps the blinds drawn. No one sees him or knows him directly, but since there is order in town, who can deny that he is there? The mayor is predictable and always on schedule. The settlers fear the mayor, but look to him to clear the payroll and keep things going. Peace and quiet are the mayor’s main concerns. That’s why he sends the sheriff to check on the pioneers who ride into town.
In Pioneer Theology, God is the trail boss. He is rough and rugged, full of life. He chews tobacco, drinks straight whiskey. The trail boss lives, eats, sleeps, fights with his people. Their sell-being is his concern. Without him the wagon wouldn’t move; living as a free man would be impossible. The trail boss often gets down in the mud with the pioneers to help push the wagon, which often gets stuck. He prods the pioneers when they get soft and want to turn back. His fist is an expression of his concern.

In Settler Theology, Jesus is the sheriff. He’s the guy who is sent by the mayor to enforce the rules. He wears a white hat, drinks milk, outdraws the bad guys. The sheriff decides who is thrown into jail. There is a saying in town that goes: those who believe the mayor sent the sheriff, and follow the rules, they won’t stay in Boothill when it comes their time.
In Pioneer Theology, Jesus is the scout. He rides out ahead to find our which way the pioneers should go. He lives all the dangers of the trail. The scout suffers every hardship, is attacked by the Indians. Through his words and actions he reveals the true intentions of the trail boss. By looking at the scout, those on the trail learn what it means to be a pioneer.
In Settler Theology, the Holy Spirit is the saloon girl. Her job is to comfort the settlers. They come to her when they feel lonely, or when life gets dull or dangerous. She tickles them under the chin and makes everything okay again. The saloon girl squeals to the sheriff when someone starts disturbing the peace.

Pioneer Theology

In Pioneer Theology, the Holy Spirit is the buffalo hunter. He rides along with the covered wagon and furnishes fresh meat for the pioneers. Without it they would die. The buffalo hunter is a strange character—sort of a wild man. The pioneers can never tell what he will do next.
He scares the hell out of the settlers. He has a big black gun that goes off like a cannon. He rides into town on Sunday to shake up the settlers. You see, every Sunday morning, the settlers have a little ice cream party in the courthouse. With his gun in hand the buffalo hunter sneaks up to one of the courthouse windows. He fires a tremendous blast that rattles the whole courthouse. Men jump out of their skin, women scream, dogs bark. Chuckling to himself, the buffalo hunter rides back to the wagon train shooting up the town as he goes.
In Settler Theology, the Christian is the settler. He fears the open, unknown frontier. His concern is to stay on good terms with the mayor and keep out of the sheriff’s way. “Safety first” is his motto. To him the courthouse is a symbol of security, peace, order, and happiness. He keeps his money in the bank. The banker is his best friend. The settler never misses an ice cream party.

In Pioneer Theology, the Christian is the pioneer. He is a man of daring, hungry for a new life. He rides hard, knows how to use a gun when necessary. The pioneer feels sorry for the settlers and tries to tell them of the joy and fulfillment of life on the trail. He dies with his boots on.
In Settler Theology, the clergyman is the banker. Within his vault are locked the values of the town. He is a highly respected man. He has a gun, but keeps it hidden in his desk. He feels that he and the sheriff have a lot in common. After all, they both protect the bank.

In Pioneer Theology, the clergyman is the cook. He doesn’t furnish the meat. He just dishes up what the buffalo hunter provides. This is how he supports the movement of the wagon. He never confuses his job with that of the trail boss, scout, or the buffalo hunter. He sees himself as just another pioneer who has learned how to cook. The cook’s job is to help the pioneers pioneer.

Faith

In Settler Theology, faith is trusting in the safety of the town: obeying the laws, keeping your nose clean, believing the mayor is in the courthouse.

In Pioneer Theology, faith is the spirit of adventure: the readiness to move out, to risk everything on the trail. Faith is obedience to the restless voice of the trail boss.

Sin

In Settler Theology, sin is breaking one of the town’s ordinances.
In Pioneer Theology, sin is wanting to turn back.

Salvation

In Settler Theology, salvation is living close to home and hanging around the courthouse.
In Pioneer Theology, salvation is being more afraid of sterile town life than death on the trail. Salvation is joy at the thought of another day to push on into the unknown. It is trusting the trail boss and following his scout while living on the meat furnished by the buffalo hunter.

—Lion and Lamb: the Relentless Tenderness of Jesus, Brennan Manning, Chapter 3, Fleming H. Revell Company, Old Tappan, NJ, 1986.3

My Name is NOT “The Universe”

A block of marble got struck by lightning and when the dust cleared… this was what was left.

Forget Michelangelo. I don’t believe he even existed. No one can really prove that he did… Can they? I think there was an explosion of some sort that caused the marble particles to heat up and burst apart. Resulting a big bang. Shards of marble burst into the air and a cloud of dust and chaos ensued. It had to be some special force of nature because the result was this beautiful intricate statue.

“The Statue”

I have no idea what the special force of nature was that created this statue. In fact, the man people claim this looks like probably did not even exist either. There is no other instance of this happening that I know of. Furthermore, I contend that this statue was not really “created” – it was merely the accidental result of a random event. A “leftover” if you will.

So, the next time I see this image I am just going to refer to it as “The Statue”. Actually what I mean is that I will use “The Statue” to encapsulate the whole event and the man-shaped thing that is left over. Perhaps I will just call it “The Thing”

 

I Marvel At It

I marvel at this man-shaped marble figure. It seems to evoke a story! But that could not possibly be true. It’s a by-product of an energy event produced by a momentary bolt of lighting that just happen to hit a block of marble at just the right spot – at just the right angle – at just the right time – with just the right amount of…energy. I think it is quite miraculous! But I don’t want to get too wrapped up in that. So I will refer to it as “The Statue”. That will keep it at a safe distance. That will keep it in its proper place.

Michelangelo?

Let’s just say for the sake of argument that there was someone named Michelangelo. And, that he was a sculptor. He would probably be highly offended after spending his creative talents and energy creating the above statue if people refused to even acknowledge it as a purposeful act. As the story goes it took him two years to create the statue. If he was like most artists who pour their heart and soul in to their work, he would have labored over this night and day. It is almost incomprehensible to think that all of that talent, vision and hard work could be “deleted” from history and replaced with another account of the events. Forget the creator. Let’s just admire the creation. And call the whole thing “The Statue”. Make sense?

 

Creation

I see people arguing incessantly about the creation story in the Bible. They debate the age of things and that God could not possibly have created the universe in 6 days. Really? I have a much harder time buying into the theory that there was an immense explosion and DNA popped out the other side when the dust cleared. No life – then life. And, not just life. Unfathomably complicated life at that. Life doctors thousands of years down the road still can’t fully explain.

No, I believe there is a God. For me God is not worth worshiping unless He is capable of creating the universe out of thin air. I don’t have to prove or debate whether He did or did not create the universe in six literal days. In fact, I don;t have to prove anything. We are all taking leaps of faith in what we believe. I believe there is a God and He revealed himself through regular everyday people in the Bible. I believe He is a God who wants (or rather – quietly demands) credit and our respect. But, He’s not going to force it. God will not sit quietly forever while being ignored, denied and referred to only by his handiwork. I think He might say: My name is God and when we meet in person, you will have no problem calling me that. You will find out, my name is definitely NOT “The Universe.”

 

TRUE Love Holds No Record of Wrongs

Love is a way of Life

  • If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.
  • And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing.
  • If I give away all I have, and if I deliver up my body to be burned, but have not love, I gain nothing.

Love is Counter-Cultural

Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

Love never ends. As for prophecies, they will pass away; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when the perfect comes, the partial will pass away. When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I gave up childish ways. For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I have been fully known.

So now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love

The Bible

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The photo above was an Instagram post from one of my friends and it stopped me in my tracks. When I saw it, I was very intrigued. It was the polar opposite of “should”!! It like being invited into someone’s journal as they did daily life. So I went out his Instagram photos and there were several of these photos.

Book of Rules

It would be easy to think of the Bible as a Book of Rules.  I actually started to lead this section with “If you are not a Christian, it would be easy…” But, my suspicion is that many Christians feel this way too. People have a weird love/hate relationship with rules. On one hand, they are comforting. Do not drink and drive. Murder is illegal. 25 MPH in a school zone. Some are easy like Don’t put diesel fuel in a vehicle that runs on gas. It is unlikely anyone would argue with that because the consequences are immediate and personal. But most of life is not that cut and dried. Many times its gets slippery. “No Running” signs at the pool come to mind. “But, I can handle it.” you say.

There is no doubt the Bible contains rules.  The 10 Commandments are probably the most obvious example. The deeper question is why though. Why are there rules? Why should I not covet my neighbor’s stuff? My suspicion is that God inspired the Bible writers to record principles for living that would keep us out of danger. In that respect, the Bible is sort of like an Owner’ Manual for human beings. Change your oil. Use the right fuel. Wash yourself occasionally. Make sure there is tread on your tires in rainy weather. You get the point.

Show Me a Worn out Bible

A Bible that’s falling apart usually belongs to someone who isn’t.” ― Charles Haddon Spurgeon

That quote is another one that can stop you in your tracks. Take any book and look at the spine. If it is broken and frazzled, the book has been read a LOT. It has not been revered like a relic and set aside for safe keeping. It has been devoured like a wonderful meal. Over, and over, and over again. Very few books look like this. Why? Because once you read a regular book – even a great one – you get the concepts after once or twice. The Bible though is different.

Manuals, on the other hand, get used over and over again. They are full of systems and procedures. Ways things work best. Created by the creator of whatever it is. “Did you look in the manual?” is a very natural question when someone is having car trouble. Manuals may even be spiral bound or in a binder because they are supposed to be used. If you owned any type of franchised business, you would be expected to master the information in the manual and use it explicitly.

Yes, You Can Write in It

Notes in the margins! In PEN!!!! Oh – my – word.

Maybe its just me but I was afraid to mark in my Bible for the longest time. Then, once I felt the freedom to write in my Bible, I was still afraid that it would be messy. Today, I realize that margin notes and messy pages are signs of real living and wrestling with real life. When there are actual dates, it brings back memories of a past struggle where many times I have been able to see God’s fingerprints all over my life. Sometimes the struggle continues. Prayers that I thought were unanswered – got answered in a different way. I was able to see that there was a way and a better way.

Proverbs 14:12 English Standard Version (ESV) – “There is a way that seems right to a man,
but its end is the way to death.”

Beyond “Religious”

The words Religion and Religious bring up all kinds of connotations. Most of the time they make people think of behavior and performance standards, having to go to church, etc. This is why the photo at the top of this post is so so meaningful to me. It, along with all of the others like it that my friend posted, capture the gritty intimacy that is a daily relationship with God through Jesus Christ. And, I need to see that. I need to hang around people who live like that. That is how I want to live!

If you want to check out the rest of the photos, here is the link to my friend’s Instagram account.

Each of Us is an Original

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People can spend an entire lifetime running from who they are. Why? Because deep down they do not trust God. They refuse to accept the fact that they are an “original” – created in the image of God – uniquely suited to impact a corner of the world that only they can reach – for His glory. The problem lies in that last part… It’s really a silent fight over glory.

Seeking Your Own Glory

It is obvious what kind of life develops out of trying to get your own way all the time: repetitive, loveless, cheap sex; a stinking accumulation of mental and emotional garbage; frenzied and joyless grabs for happiness; trinket gods; magic-show religion; paranoid loneliness; cutthroat competition; all-consuming-yet-never-satisfied wants; a brutal temper; an impotence to love or be loved; divided homes and divided lives; small-minded and lopsided pursuits; the vicious habit of depersonalizing everyone into a rival; uncontrolled and uncontrollable addictions; ugly parodies of community. I could go on.

This isn’t the first time I have warned you, you know. If you use your freedom this way, you will not inherit God’s kingdom.

Seeking God’s Glory

But what happens when we live God’s way? He brings gifts into our lives, much the same way that fruit appears in an orchard—things like affection for others, exuberance about life, serenity. We develop a willingness to stick with things, a sense of compassion in the heart, and a conviction that a basic holiness permeates things and people. We find ourselves involved in loyal commitments, not needing to force our way in life, able to marshal and direct our energies wisely.

Legalism is helpless in bringing this about; it only gets in the way. Among those who belong to Christ, everything connected with getting our own way and mindlessly responding to what everyone else calls necessities is killed off for good—crucified.

Since this is the kind of life we have chosen, the life of the Spirit, let us make sure that we do not just hold it as an idea in our heads or a sentiment in our hearts, but work out its implications in every detail of our lives. That means we will not compare ourselves with each other as if one of us were better and another worse. We have far more interesting things to do with our lives. Each of us is an original.”

Excerpted from a letter Paul sent to the church in Galatia. Galatians 5:19-26 The Message

Never underestimate the plans God has for you OR the misery that will follow you if you chose to live your life on your own.

Settlers versus Pioneers

One of the core struggles in life is grasping the bigness and wildness of the Gospel. For me, Brennan Manning, is one of the few authors that can put into words what my heart feels and longs for.

This video is a great word picture contrasting two common perspectives on life. It explores the wildness and uncertainty of being on the front lines in a broken world. I know it looks a bit old and the quality is not HD – but it is DEFINITELY worth watching!