
Be the Bridge

Thoughts from B.J. Winfrey – shared by Bill Rawlings
George Washington’s dentures were NOT made from wood rather than the teeth of his slaves.
We know about slavery emancipation, but not 1860’s vagrancy laws targeting former slaves and perpetuating free labor via the prison system, in all but one former Confederate state and lasting 60 years with often harsher conditions than plantation life.
We know about Rosa Parks and the bus boycott, but not the practice of sharecropping in the Deep South where many black people didn’t realize they were free from slavery until the 1960’s.
We know about black ghettos, but not about Black Wall Street and the massacre in Tulsa which was buried for decades.
We may remember about the Watts and L.A. Riots, but not Tulsa or Wilmington.
We remember the New Deal, but not red lining.
We know about the G.I. Bill after WWII, but not that black people were excluded from the wealth building benefits impacting multiple generations.
After Nazi Germany was defeated, memorials of Hitler and the Third Reich were taken down, but Confederate memorials were erected well after the Civil War had ended.
We heard about the war on drugs, but not that federal grants were given to police departments based off of arrests and that profit incentives in the prison system fueled dramatic increases in prison populations.
We learned that crack was used mainly by lower income black people and carried stiff judicial penalties, but not that cocaine primarily used by wealthier white people carried a far lesser penalty…a 100-1 ratio meaning 5 grams of crack cocaine mandated the same minimum sentence as 500 grams of powder cocaine.
We heard about apartheid, but not that the U.S. has more black people incarcerated than South Africa ever did at the height of their struggle.
It happened because my husband needed to be closer to work. The drives were long, and the hours were getting late. And when our baby came, I pretty much became a single parent almost – and that
was not part of our deal.
We found an area where the schools were great, the neighborhoods were clean, and the people were friendly. Or so I thought.
We got involved in our community and church in this “great area”, and I then began to see the true ugliness of where we live. Strangers feel the need to express how impressed they are with our well-behaved children. I guess they expect them to behave like animals.
Retailers feel comfortable reminding us not to steal with questions like, “Did you pay for that,” or statements like, “As long as you don’t steal it.” We encounter sales associates who are willing to offer daily deals and specials to the [peach] person behind us but remain silent once it’s our turn to save money.
Schools that award the privileged kids first and then fill in with color to complete a look and tell a lie to keep from having to address DEI.
Medical staff that dismisses your pain and ignores the sense of
urgency when there’s an emergency.
It’s a place where other customers (unsolicited) find it necessary to remind us of how great America is and how we should appreciate the privileges we do have.
We’ve learned of neighbors who cancel Bible Study once a person of color joins the group and ones who give their children the impression that we’re poor even though we can afford to live right next to them.
What looked so right on the outside began to look so rotten on the inside. It began to test my ugliness.
But then I realized that was His plan all along.
~Author Ty (2023)
Guest Author, Judy Campbell-Smith (2023)
Stay humble
Stay uncomfortable
Stay in the midst of it all
Be willing
Be wondering
Be learning–there’s more to it all
No running
No fighting
No easy answers for free
But asking
And listening
We’ll get there together, but slowly
Who’s ready?
Who’s hungry?
Here with the willing
The hopeful
The faithful
We are bridge-building
Guest Author, John Casteel
When there was an opportunity to make wicked money, we were there.
When there was a chance at a nice house in a nice neighborhood, we were there.
When we were offered comfort with people just like us, we were there.
When there was a prospect of good education for our kids and others like us, we were there.
When good jobs were made available to us, we were there.
When freedom was offered to others, we weren’t there.
When others needed resources we had hoarded, we weren’t there.
When those we had enslaved needed a home, we weren’t there.
When we had the opportunity to be neighbors, we weren’t there.
When churches were bombed, we weren’t there.
When marches were needed, we weren’t there.
When people were lynched, we weren’t there.
When crosses were burned we weren’t there.
Now. We’re often not there.
But,
Now, in my best moments… I want to be
Dear Mike,
You are around 12 in this photo. The good news is that you are going to care deeply about injustices resulting from the dehumanizing of people who are not considered white. The bad news is that it is going to take another 46 years for you to care enough to take action. In the meantime, you are going to live your life surrounded by white people with seemingly no need for friends of color.
The Room in this metaphor is our country ; The United States of America.
The Elephant in this metaphor is the reality that white men have done some very disturbing things in the name of Manifest Destiny to create what we now enjoy as America. If it was just a matter to survival of the fittest, I would say tough – there are always losers.
The problem for you will be this – you will become a Follower of Jesus Christ some time during your junior year of high school. At that point, you don’t get to shrug this off as “dog eat dog” rules… You won’t have that luxury. Everything “should” be run through a Biblical filter as a Believer.
The other problem? You will be missing a LOT of history and the history you have learned has been whitewashed and spun like well-oiled political campaign rhetoric.
Everything for me hinges on the phrase Imago Dei – all people have been created in the image of God. This is a crucial cross-roads because race was created to elevate one group of people while dehumanizing most of the others.